Sunday, April 27, 2014

Closing and building...




I officially closed on my first house.  I bought the house back in 2005 and had lived there since.  A lot of changes happened in that house from living with Kory, living alone, Pedro moving in, getting married, having Zuri and now another baby on the way.  I was definitely a little sad to be moving out, but we are excited to start  fresh at a new house with a bigger family!

I would post a picture of our new house but I don't have one yet!  We have been told that closing will happen sometime between the end of May and the end of June.  We were also told about a month ago that it wouldn't be until August, so who really knows!

It has been a lot of work with our new house.  Going to the design center and picking out options, changing options because of their huge mark up on things, figuring out how to get things done that we want on our own.  Plus we need to look into furniture and other house things, which we haven't gotten too far on.  We want to get a lot done before the baby comes because it is already difficult scheduling times to do these things with Zuri, Pedro's work schedule and my work schedule.

One picture I have is of the awesome view we have from our loft!!
That open space area will always be open space because it is part of a wildlife refuge!

Here is to us moving on and moving up!

Zuri 2 years and 2-3 months



So many new things with Zuri the last 4 to 6 weeks.  Her language skills have really blossomed.  She can talk or repeat things that she was not doing before.  She can count up to about 16, however she always forgets 4 and sometimes she repeats a few numbers.  She loves counting.  She also knows what a circle is and will point out circles or tell me she is going to "go circle."  She still doesn't have a lot of FULL sentences but her sentences are getting better.  Words like "good morning mama" and "love you" are some of my favorites.  Zuri likes to say "Stella SIT DOWN!"  Or "mama read book".  We have been focusing on "please" and "thank you."  These make me laugh because she thinks if she says these that automatically she will get what she wants.  

Her adjustment to staying at my parents (nana and papa's) was ok.  I think she was confused about her room being moved from where she has slept here before but has realized where her room is now.  She wanted to carry her "blankie" around for awhile and still randomly does, which is something she has never done before but I assume she was/is just adjusting to a big change.  She loves that my parents have a big yard with nice grass for her to play.  She constantly says "mama outside!"  We took her to the park down the street to fly her first kite!




Zuri also has a new found love for Ashby.  She asks about her all the time and wants to hold her hand and be with her when we have gone with them to the Easter Egg hunt and Easter brunch.  




Zuri definitely understood the concept of gathering as many eggs as possible, pretty sure she had more than any other kid.  Luckily she didn't realize until after that they were filled with candy!


  Yes she had two bags full of eggs!


Easter Brunch!





Zuri and I also colored Easter Eggs for the first time!  She loved it!




One big event for Zuri is that she has started two half days of school a week.  She goes from 9am to 1pm.  She talks about school and tells me she wants to go, but then she hasn't been to excited for me to leave her yet.  But she doesn't want to leave school when I go to pick her up!  I wanted her to have a place where she is getting interaction, communication, active play, listening skills, new songs, sitting down and reading with other people, eating with someone other than me while there are distractions and other fun things for her!  The added benefit will be that when her sister is born that I will have some alone time two days a week with her sister.  I feel a little selfish right now having a few hours to myself (although that time is usually spent at the gym or doing work).  But I know that I won't feel selfish in a few weeks and I didn't want her to equate going to school with her sister.  


Zuri's first "trial day" which was only 2 hours.


Zuri's first real day of school.

Here she is doing puzzles one of her new favorite things to do, she is surprisingly good at them!

Zuri also loves going to the zoo.  Thankfully the weather has been getting nicer and so there have been a few perfect mornings for going.  She loves running around the zoo and looking at all the animals.  She can now say most of the animals and knows what they are when she sees them.  


Right now Zuri constantly surprises me with the things she knows and does.  She also loves singing and like every kid right now loves the song from Frozen "Let it go!"  

We have also had a few bed and nap time issues.  She wants me to read books over and over.  Then once I lay her down she tells me that she wants me to sing "E I O".  So, I sing Old MacDonald had a farm for a few minutes and when I tell her good night she gets mad and keeps yelling "E I O MAMA!!!"

I would say at this age we definitely get random tantrums that I don't have any idea where they come from and happy times that are equally surprising.

Now she has a few more changes to expect coming up soon.  A baby sister and another move into a new house!

Weeks #34, 35 and 36 with #2!

The lack of posts have been because of our crazy last month!  I got everything packed up and moved out of our house.  We were out on the 6th and had to have it cleaned on the 7th and closed on the 8th of April.  We moved in to my parents house and we had a bit of an adjustment period for everyone.  Plus the internet is not great where my computer is set up.  

The pregnancy has been going good.  I feel normal and then I SEE myself and realize that I am HUGE!  It really does make me laugh because when I am first pregnant I think I look so big, but now it is almost funny :)
34 Weeks #2

35 Weeks #2


36 Weeks #2



I had my doctors appointment this week (last one was a month ago).  The doctor said that I measured a week big (37 weeks) and that the baby is head down.  Her heartbeat was 155.  Baby A moves so much.  She also doesn't like when I sit down because she doesn't seem to have much room.  She gets squished up under my ribs, especially on my right side.  The doctor seems to think that this baby will be bigger than Zuri was but of course nobody knows until I actually deliver her!

I get funny looks when I go to the gym and workout and I am pretty sure I have been asked about a million times when I am due this last month, which obviously means that I LOOK like I should have already delivered.  Thankfully, I haven't and hopefully baby girl holds out until her due date or longer :)

The last month we have also checked out two hospitals and we are still undecided which one we will go to when I am in labor.  Each hospital has their upside and downsides.  I guess we really need to figure that out!  We are finally getting our stuff organized for the baby.  I was having some random contractions this last weekend so that made us think we really needed to get ready!  I have a baby shower with my team next Sunday so then I will know what is left to get for our little girl.  I have a feeling she will be born between the 9th and the 11th.

My biggest concern with having Baby A is mostly my worry about Zuri and her reaction to having a sister.  We are really attached and I try to explain she will have to share me with her sister but she obviously doesn't understand that.  I know most second time parents have this concern but I worry because Zuri isn't one of those kids that carries around babies and pretends to take care of them!  Hopefully she will love her sister from the start!

Baby Info:
Days pregnant:  258 days!
Days till due date:  22 more days!
Baby size:  18.75 inches and 5.75lbs crenshaw melon
Baby development:   Baby is gaining weight and getting rounder in appearance.  Baby is considered full term tomorrow.